Hmmn “Valentine’s day” is almost here.


Firstly I just want to say happy Valentine’s day in advance to you all. I know the day is still kinda far but I think this post couldn’t wait. You know, that special day isn’t meant for just the married, boyfriends/girlfriends, engaged….etc. That special day is meant for everyone, both young and old. You don’t have to Val the opposite sex. You don’t have to be in a relationship to celebrate Valentine’s day. Everyone should be your val. Even if you don’t have anything for them. Show them love by doing other meaningful things. Okay so I know you shouldn’t just show love on Valentine’s day alone but every single day. But the day should be very special, just multiply the ways you’ve been showing your love…….if you get what I mean. Don’t think otherwise oo. STAY CLEAN.

For the already “boyfriends/girlfriends”, “engaged”

Hmmm……that day should not pass special oo. Too much of something might end up in a bad way. I’m not saying you shouldn’t make your “boo” or “bae” feel special but make sure you do the right things. You shouldn’t do what you don’t want to do all because it is “valentine’s day”. After valentine’s day, destruction or love continues for some people while some remain the same.
Now for the “I have no bae” group.
Because today is Valentine’s day, it DOESN’T mean you should become desperate in looking for ‘A BAE’. You’ve been living your life just fine. If you haven’t, I’m sorry but being desperate will not help.

For the single ladies…..


Some guys that have never even noticed you since the 1800s will just show up and say he loves you. Don’t get me wrong, maybe he does. Just be careful, yes they will buy you all the Victoria’s secret perfume, Mac make-up products, a teddy bear that is bigger than the house you’re living in and even your best Chocolates that are more expensive than the clothes you wear but in exchange for something you’re not willing to give, not talking about material things or love. I’m talking about your body. Yup your body. Girl!!!! Give them all back. They aren’t worth it. I REPEAT, give them all back.

give’em all back girl!!!


Now for the Guys……


Some girls you also haven’t noticed will try to get attention from you. They’ll put on the best make-up, wear the sexiet outfits just to lure you into asking them to be their vals so they’ll run your pockets dry. Your pockets will become their bae and not you. And guess what? After Valentine’s day, they’ll run away. You’ll begin to realize all the fake numbers and house address they gave you. Don’t be deceived.

For the married…..


Well the truth is I have nothing much to say to you, just do your thing. 😀 Make your spouse feel even special than she/he has ever felt before. Please your business should be in your home only, I mean your eyes. Don’t look at something you shouldn’t look at. Also please show your children love. They shouldn’t be left out. We don’t want to be left out. That’s all I can I say for now.


Some will read this and be like “mehn you’re spoiling everything for me” but the truth has to be spoken even though most of you already know that.

you will not die if you have no val.


The whole point is that we shouldn’t do things that are absurd all because it is Valentine’s day. Show in appropriate ways. I had many other things to say but i’ll stop here. Show some love people. 😀 Don’t worry if you don’t have anyone to celebrate Valentine’s day with, just tell me what you want for compensation and i’ll send it to you through my email. LIVE AND DIRECT. lol


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Author: Benita Okafor

Hi 😀 My name is Benita. I am Nigerian, a psychology student, and a blogger. I enjoy taking pictures, I love eating, that’s why I enjoy cooking, writing (not a great writer but hoping to be someday), getting to know people (even though I am a very shy person) and so much more. To view full profile, click

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